Why do we hate ourselves? Why do we hate others? It's a VERY strong word. HATE. But why do we use it so often?
We HATE when we die in a Video Game, We HATE terrible Drivers, We HATE almost everything at some point in life.
First why do we HATE our decisions in life. We at times seem to HATE every little thing we do too. To me we HATE our decisions simply because of the outcome. Which for the most part is a Bad outcome. And instead of just dealing with the outcome and trying to fix it, we just "HATE" it and Bitch and moan about Everything. INSTEAD we should just accept the outcome. Even if it is bad we should just accept it.
(Example) Someone is a douche to you, you then HATE that person. Now you don't know that person personally. Maybe they are having a bad day. But instead you HATE that person for being a Douche to you..
Second why do we HATE ourselves? We tend to HATE our lives. As in how your life is going. If we don't have a partner we dread our lives. We dread having the feeling of being alone countless nights. Going to sleep and waking up without someone being there. If we don't do what "Society" wants us to do. Then we tend to HATE ourselves. Because we don't feel accepted. It's a crap thing to realize, but we HATE not being accepted. And it's why (to me) we begin to HATE ourselves, because we think we can't get ANYONE, can't make ANY friends. Somewhat LITERALLY can't do ANYTHING.
As i wrote before we should never Hate ANY of our Decisions. We made them, live up to the end result. Wether it is a BAD or GOOD outcome. And we need to not let things get to us as much as they do. But we are human, and no matter what i say or anyone else says. We will always feel the way we don't want to.
Peace&Love
-Jared<3
This article caught my eye, because I read something recently that had to do with a part of it. Many cultures, ecspecially eastern ones, don't understand the idea of self loathing. It's a western idea built out of the philosophy that best suit's us. Western psychology is built out of the idea that the brain is inherently negative. The idea that I subscribe to believes that we love ourselves and others very much and that creates the majority of our own personal drama. You HATE yourself because you wish yourself to be better for the sake of all. We tend to glorify others attributes because subconciously and nit pick at our own. There is a lot more to it than that, but I would have to practically write a whole blog on the subject! Hopefully this interested you as much as it did me(as well as your blogging) continue your blogging, looking forward to more!
ReplyDelete~Brian R.
1st off thanks for reading my blog, glad you read it and hopefully enjoyed it. And that is definitely interesting to read, and i can completely see where we end up hating ourselves. Really interesting stuff. And i will continue blogging as long as my mind is going and or i'm not dead aha.
ReplyDeletebut seriously thanks for reading and glad you liked it.
- Jared